Head of School Comment

Head of School Comment

28
February
2013

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 4/3/13

Last week I went to a lecture by a Rabbi at North Shore Synagogue on the topic of how to inspire your children.  His initial point was that a great proportion of the world’s ills

– crime, drugs, promiscuity, social dislocation - can be sheeted home to one principle cause – boredom, and the desperate need to run from it.  The opposite of boredom is not excitement – which is merely a brittle covering for it; rather it is inspiration.  His key message to the audience was to be inspiring parents.

He made four points.  Firstly that parents shouldn’t try to make children everything the parents want them to be; but rather allow them to be everything the children want to be.  As an aside he said the question: “what do you want to be when you grow up?” has only two possible answers:  a good person, or a bad person.  He pointed out that, of course, everyone really wants to be (and feels they are) a good person.  It’s just that some of us haven’t really been educated in what being a good person requires.

His second point was that intellectual curiosity is more important than mere school grades.  Low grades may indicate a lack of curiosity, but it is the latter which needs attention first.

So, thirdly, excite your child’s curiosity and desire to know more by communicating your passions to them.  He, the Rabbi, said he was passionate about three things: God and Judaism (naturally), History and Nature, and he had communicated this to his children.  Not that they should have the same passions, but that should know what their father and mother’s passions are.

Fourthly, your love for your children shouldn’t be (or appear to be) conditional on them doing what you want.  It should be unqualified.  No more love if they are good, no less if they are, occasionally, not good.  The one thing your children have absolutely no control over is the amount that you love them.

As Headmaster is away this week, this comment piece is from our archives, dated Week 6, Term 1, 2007

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22
February
2013

Headmaster's Weekly Comment

Be ye therefore perfect, even as your Father which is in heaven is perfect.

                                                Matthew 5:48

 

One of the pieces of sage advice that Leon MacLaren, the founder of the school, gave us was always to begin with the Absolute. 

So when we consider any aspect of the school, any plans we have to implement, any child who needs some form of correction, we start by articulating the ideal outcome, the perfect solution, the model result.

Having done this we then see clearly if, and to what extent, there is a shortfall from this ideal.  Practical steps then reveal themselves, which can be taken to close the gap between what we have, and what we want.  The staff have been conscientiously implementing this, with encouraging results.

 At first blush it may seem pretty obvious to go about things this way; but we found, initially, that it was a bit counter-intuitive.  This is because we are often beguiled by the problem, the difficulty or the mistake.  Our attention goes to the few talkative children when the majority of the class is still and attentive; we focus on the few things that go wrong in an otherwise well-organised event; we fret about a few disgruntled people when the overwhelming (and usually silent) majority are happy and supportive.

 This doesn’t mean the chatty children shouldn’t be quiet, that future events wouldn’t benefit from a post-mortem, or that peoples’ concerns shouldn’t be given full respect and attention.  Merely that the most efficient and stress free way of responding is to have a picture of the best –the Absolute – clearly in view.

 

Note:  I’ll be away for a few weeks.  I have been invited to present a paper on school funding at a conference in UK.  Mrs McKendrick and Mrs Donald will constitute the steady hand on the tiller in my absence.  See you all soon.

In the meantime could I beg you all to be very considerate of our neighbours when driving, parking and dropping off or picking up the children.   Thank you.


 

 

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15
February
2013

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 18/2/13

And as ye would that men should do to you, do ye also to them likewise.

Luke 6:31

This week we are focusing on the Golden Rule.  As stated above by Jesus it is also known as the Law of Reciprocity.  In assembly I told the children that there was only one rule which we needed to follow and that, if we followed it, all other rules would be covered.

I also told them the rule had two forms: if you like it when people do or say things to you, then you should do or say that thing to other people.  If you like people praising you, then you should praise others.  If you like people being friendly, or kind, or thoughtful to you, then you should be friendly, thoughtful and kind to others.

On the other hand if there are things you don’t like, then you should stop doing or saying those things.  If you don’t like people touching, taking to fiddling with your possessions, then you should keep your own hands off.  If you find certain words hurtful, then you should refrain from speaking like that to others.

 The children appeared to be delighted with this reasonable way of going about life.  And they seemed to like the fact that this one rule would replace the thousands that seem to crowd our lives.

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08
February
2013

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 11/2/13

Sometimes people ask if we teach Creationism or Darwinian Evolution.  The school doesn’t really teach either:  We don’t teach Evolution – the theory that species come into existence, change and disappear by a process of mutation and natural selection - because it is not in the primary school syllabus;  and we don’t teach Creationism – that God created the heaven, the earth and  its creatures in six periods of twenty-four hours, because we take these grand, mystic stories in the Bible to be allegories rather than literally true.

The idea that Science and Religion are somehow at odds is mostly spurious.  In the context we are considering, this is because Darwinian Evolution doesn’t seek to address the existence of a Creator, who may or may not have embedded this mechanism of adaptation into His creatures.  And Scripture mostly seeks to ask Why questions, rather than the How questions of Science.

In fact science tends to abdicate both the fields of philosophy and religion.  Philosophy involves the metaphysical enquiry into existence, consciousness and the ultimate causes of things, and religion delves into the realm of spiritual and moral questions and of the nature of God and how life should be lived.  To illustrate, while science tells us in detail how the internal combustion engine works, it is silent on the character of Henry Ford, or  whether a car should be used in a drive by shooting or to transport a sick child to hospital.  

Darwinian evolution gives a beautiful, elegant and useful hypothesis on the Mechanism of the adaptation of species, while religion enquires into the nature of, and our relationship with, the Mechanic. 


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01
February
2013

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 4/2/2013

Welcome back everyone to the new academic year.  Aside from welcoming a new cohort of beautiful Lower 1st children, we also have over a dozen new children in other classes who are settling in nicely to their new school.  And we have new members of staff as well, which always enlivens the school, bringing fresh perspectives to the classroom.  And lastly we have our newly rebuilt Colet House.

Over the Summer the teachers met in December and January for a total of seven days.  We planned the year, and also had some very stimulating in-service days on Mathematics, Gifted and Talented issues and Creative Writing; we also covered the basic areas of child protection and student welfare.

I would like to start the year by making school’s basic Philosophy very practical.  We do believe in a higher power that is ever present, accessible and helpful. But remembering to be quietly present and to connect with that higher power in the hurley burley of everyday life sometimes presents a challenge. 

So the staff have been reminded that all problems can be solved and all challenges faced best by being present and giving loving intelligent attention to the issue.  And we have instituted a simple practice: from now on, at 11.00 am every day, the whole school including teachers, children, office and lunch staff and anyone else on the premises will be invited to be silent and still and peaceful for just a few moments.

 

 

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30
November
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 3/12/12

The end of the year is upon us and that means Speech Night preparations, Reports, Picnic Day, and all the other end of year minutiae which press their claims at this, the busiest time of the year.

And the spirit of Christmas also begins to creep up on us.  All those endlessly repeated Christmas songs, with their sometimes sentimental words, all sing about the warmth, love, family fellowship and generosity which accompany this most beautiful of festivals. 

This is a time to celebrate, because the promise of Christmas is that the loving, intelligent, creative Divinity which guides the world is not just a Superman God – Up in the sky, is it a bird? Is it a plane….   It is a warm, loving Presence that can work the remarkable magic trick of being born in a stable in extraordinary circumstances in mid-Winter to a young woman; with visitors both noble and commonplace; and with a final miraculous escape from danger and death.  A new-born baby from another world, invulnerable to the machinations of a powerful, murderous King of this world.

It would be hard to think of a more moving way of illustrating the unshakeable power of truth, love and reality, against ignorance and cruelty.

On behalf of all the staff of the school and on behalf of Mrs Mane and I, I wish you all a very happy, peaceful and prosperous Christmas and New Year and I look forward to seeing you all at Speech Night.



 

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21
November
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 26/11/12

One of the reasons for starting John Colet – aside from teaching Grammar, Spelling, Times Tables, all of which had been jettisoned in the 60s and 70s – was to give the children simple, easy techniques of self-awareness.  But why?  And what do we mean by “self-awareness”?

Self-awareness has a shiny, positive, hooray sound; but it often entails a little effort to come out of self-unawareness.  To help our understanding the wise refer to this as waking and sleeping.  Shakespeare is characteristically apt. 

In The Tempest Antonio, suggesting evil deeds to a reluctant Sebastian asks:  Do you not hear me speak?  And Sebastian replies:

I do, and surely it is a sleepy language, and thou speak’st out of thy sleep…. This is a strange repose, to be asleep with eyes wide open – standing, speaking, moving – and yet so fast asleep.

I think all of us can identify with this state of waking sleep – with eyes wide open, and yet so fast asleep.  Where we feel guilt for an unchangeable past, or anxious about an imaginary future; and we therefore miss what is happening in the present moment.

So at school we encourage the children to be present; to see what is in front of them; to hear what is being said; to taste what they are eating.  And why?  Mainly because this is Reality.  It is true, in the sense of being what is actually happening.  And usually, good hearted children who are “awake” will then respond naturally to the need of the moment – to comfort the unhappy, to tidy up, and to attend to their friends.

 

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16
November
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Note: 19/11/12

In the course of any day at school there are innumerable interactions amongst the children.  Most go by largely unremarked.  Many are wonderful – acts of kindness and courage; of intelligence and care.  And we like to reward these in some suitable way.

But a few of these interactions are less happy.  The teachers are all devoted to helping the children meet and resolve these challenging incidents; and, most are dealt with relatively easily as part of the unfolding drama we call life.

One concept which helps the children to resolve their difficulties is above-the-line and below-the-line thinking.  If we think of a horizontal line, we have, below the line:  Blame, Excuses and Denial.  Above the line we have: Responsibility, Acceptance, and Action.

One our aims in building character is to encourage the children to stay above the line;  to take responsibility for their actions, to accept events as they roll out, and to act reasonably and appropriately in the face of those events.  And, on the other hand, to leave behind blame, excuses and denial.  After all, taking an extreme example, say a child out of weakness or malevolence says or does something mean or hurtful to another child.  The teacher will, of course, do their level best to prevent a repeat occurrence, and a good way of doing this is to open the eyes of the perpetrator to the effect of his or her actions and, if necessary to surround them with some reasonable disciplinary boundaries.

But the “victim” often has a task before them as well.  If they find themselves locked into blame, and excuses and denial of their, perhaps minor part in the drama, they need help to move above the line into the realm of responsibility, acceptance and action.


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09
November
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 12/11/12

There is a lovely but curious story which Shantananda Saraswati tells several times:
A holy man was offered a room in a house where he could devote himself to prayer and meditation and study.  The four year old son of the householder used to go in quietly and sit with the saintly man, and without any instruction, used to copy him.  The boy learned stillness and meditation and grew up to become a Mahatma – a wise man.

To me this story has many layers of meaning but one of the most humbling, for a teacher, is that who we are has more influence on the child’s character than what we say or do.  Although what we say and do is important, they are only effective if they line up with who we are.

I have occasionally walked into a lively classroom, and have found myself insisting loudly and agitatedly that the children be quiet. If I am lucky I will wake up to the obvious disconnect between my state (agitated) and what I am demanding (quietude). 

I then usually apologise to the children, and ask them to be patient while I become still and quiet.  And then I ask them to join me.  Much more effective, and pleasant, for everyone.

 

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02
November
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 5/11/12

Because of the lack of ready comparisons, we face the practical issue of monitoring how John Colet is delivering the academic, cultural and spiritual curriculum to the children.  We are not in any system of comparable schools so it is a bit hard to check ourselves against any benchmark.

So feedback from parents whose children have joined us from other schools is very helpful, and it is heartwarmingly positive.  Especially when the Shakespeare Festival is on, I speak to parents who are amazed at the level of performance which the children deliver; and this regularly leads into a conversation about the miraculous change that has come over their children since joining us.

This year’s Primary Shakespeare Festival is no exception.  The Infants performances set an extremely high bar.  The Primary plays have been wonderful. Together all the plays have been a massive credit to the teachers, parents and, of course, the children.  While the weeks leading up to the performances are sometimes always fraught, the children never fail to rise to the high demands we place on them.

It may not be politic for me to say this (because I love every performance from every child); but I can’t help feeling a swelling of emotion when I see a shy or awkward child who has struggled in past years, stride out confidently and begin to “own” the stage.  As well as immersing the children in the greatness of Shakespeare’s works, it is this – the building of inner strength and character – which makes the commitment to Shakespeare worthwhile.


 

 

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26
October
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 29/10/12

I learned that it is the weak who are cruel, and that gentleness is to be expected only from the strong.  Leo Rosten

It is a paradox that cruelty, bullying, violence and mean spiritedness are the actions of the weak; and kindness, justice, tolerance, compassion and mercy are the actions of the strong. 

Shantananda Saraswati was asked about tyranny and injustice in the world and he said that cruelty, totalitarianism and evil have the outer appearance of strength; but they are in fact fragile because they are based on fear and lies and, when, like Soviet Communism, they collapse, they can do so surprisingly quickly. 

On the other hand liberal democracies, with government with the consent of the governed, which have open vigorous debate, and which value free speech and the tolerance of divergent, even heretical, views, can have the appearance of chaotic weakness.  But, he says, they are inwardly strong because they are based on simple principles of mutual consent, freedom and truthfulness.

At school I often point out to the children the obvious fact that no one is hurtful or a bully or mean from a position of strength.  Strong and confident people have no need to be unkind or vicious.  And, further, the proper response by the strong to the weak is compassion and a helping hand.

 

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12
October
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 15/10/12

We tell lots of stories to the children in Assembly, in Scripture and Philosophy classes; and all of them are intended to  be lively and entertaining.  Without wanting to be ponderous or heavy, we
also want the stories to edify.  We want  the stories to be captivating and therefore memorable; and therefore lodge in the children’s hearts, and so be available when the point or principle embedded in them is needed.

These stories are often directly about God.  Because God is compassionate, merciful and highly efficient, He comes to us in a myriad of ways, all designed to capture our attention and arouse our curiosity.  God can come to us externally in the guise of an invisible, loving parent-like figure with carefully formulated rules for living a good and fruitful life.

Or God can turn up in a more intimate form as an affectionate friend and intimate companion, usually embodied as a Jesus or a Krishna, whose human qualities excite our warmth and admiration, and whose God-like qualities excite our devotion and reverence.

Lastly, God comes to us in that still small voice of inspiration, conscience or insight which appears in us as a flash of light, or as a steady guiding lantern of moral or ethical values.  In this guise He is our own highest Self, readily accessible through inner stillness and meditation.

All religions speak of these three forms of God; and the stories we tell to the children cover all bases as well.



 

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10
October
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 9/10/12

Welcome back to a new term.  I hope everyone had a refreshing restorative break.  Many members of staff spent part of their break on a week's meditation and study retreat at the School of Philosophy.

This term we have several highlights to look forward to.  The School's annual cycle of special events and assemblies fulfil several purposes.  They give the school a regular pulse or rhythm which is repeated every year  and contributes to the "feel" of the school.  And each has its own special significance - at the Easter Assembly, for example, we concentrate on sacrifice, redemption and forgiveness;  on Anzac Day we remember the sacrifice of our fighting men and women and experience national unity; Teachers' Day honours the teacher; Founder's Day celebrates the life and work of Leon Maclaren and connects us to the history and founding principles of the school.

This term we have the Primary Shakespeare Festival, the Christmas Celebration - including the annual Nativity Play and Carol Service - and, wrapping things up for the year, our gala Speech Night at the Concourse in Chatswood.

Each of these annual celebrations is designed to lift our sights and raise our thinking beyond the day to day.  They all exemplify some significant principle -  so at Christmas time we focus on the joy of rebirth and the promise of freedom and salvation; and on Speech Night we not only celebrate the school and individual children's achievements; we also wish our graduating 6th class a warm and heartfelt farewell and best wishes for the future, with every confidence that they will continue to display the fine qualities and strength of character which make their parents and teachers justifiably proud.


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14
September
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 14/09/12

“Often, it’s not about becoming a new person, but becoming the person you were meant to be, and already are, but don’t know how to be.”
― Heath L. Buckmaster

I rather like this quote on education.  Making a child - or anyone - into a "new person" is not only impossible, but it is also impertinent.  We can't turn ourselves into someone else.  And if we are not able (and often are not willing) to do it to ourselves; it is therefore a bit rich to try to do it to someone else.

Life, I believe, is a "come as you are party".  Children turn up with their own unique natures.  Education is not so much about teachers moulding children's character; rather it is a matter of teachers (and parents) setting a living example of the virtues and values that are dear to their heart; and also providing to the children love, discipline and the finest food for their hearts and minds and spirits, such as Shakespeare, Sanskrit, Latin, Philosophy, Scripture and Mozart.

Having done this all we can do is cheer the children on as they use as much or as little of these influences, to build their own unique character.  This means the children can grow into the people they already are.  

Headmaster with 3rd class K on school camp, before they get down to the business of raftbuilding.

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07
September
2012

Headmaster's Weekly Comment: 7/09/12

One of the issues I raised in the TEDxParramatta talk was the four things needed for education are: a teacher; a pupil; knowledge; and a flow or interaction usually involving language and speech. The teacher can be a paid, trained, skillful professional; or it can be…. anyone or anything. 

For example, I was in a carparking area a few months ago and a kind lady offered me a parking ticket which still had some time on it.  I was grateful and expressed my thanks.  When she had gone I felt I had “gushed”, because of a slightly uncomfortable feeling of reluctance to accept other people’s generosity.  It was a small thing but I found it instructive.  That lady - and the situation – without knowing it, was my teacher.

But for a teacher’s lesson to work, it does require a willing pupil who is ready to learn.  Shantananda Saraswati says that no one can learn anything without respecting the teacher.  That respect, in the form of a willing ear listening to what the teacher has to impart, is crucial. 

Hence our emphasis on respect, as one of our five core values.  The teachers try to model this by respecting each other and respecting the children.  And we ask the children to enact this by standing when adults come into the room, addressing adults politely and fully, and so on.  All this creates a respectful atmosphere where the knowledge can flow easily.

On another note:  the P & F stalwarts have worked long and hard to put together a Trivia Night which is a fundraiser and which is also fun and sociable.  Sadly Mrs Mane and I were already booked to go to Brisbane to see relatives, but I would love to hear how mightily successful this event was on all fronts!

Headmaster’s TED talk online
To view the talk by Mr Mane at the recent TEDxParramatta conference, click this link http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Yzih5tNiG18&feature=plcp
The link is also on our school website under the ‘Latest News’ menu item.

 

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